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The Courage to Evolve

  • Writer: LIPSTICK® Coach
    LIPSTICK® Coach
  • May 15
  • 2 min read

To become an oak tree, the acorn must transform. It breaks open, extends roots, and pushes upward as a fragile sprout. What appears to be loss is actually the beginning of growth. What looks like stillness is transformation underway. The same is true in leadership.


Growth is not additive – it’s transformative. Something must be released for something new to emerge. Which raises a harder, more personal question: What are you willing to let go of? What beliefs, habits, or definitions of success are no longer serving the level you’re trying to reach?


Because what got you here will not take you there.


Many leaders encounter this tension in transition seasons. You prepare for the next step – refine your résumé, activate your network, pursue new opportunities – yet progress stalls. It’s easy to interpret that as an external barrier. But often, the constraint is internal.


Not a signal to move, but an invitation to evolve.


In my career, some of the most pivotal seasons were not marked by external change, but by internal recalibration. Times when forward motion required me to grow in place – to rethink how I led, how I responded under pressure, and how I defined impact.


We often ask for growth, but underestimate its cost. Growth requires release. And more often than not, what must be released is the very version of ourselves that once drove our success.


As Marshall Goldsmith famously said, “What got you here won’t get you there.” The challenge is not understanding this intellectually – it’s accepting it behaviorally. Leaders tend to double down on proven strengths, even when those strengths begin to limit effectiveness in a new context.


Real growth demands a mindset shift. It requires the humility to reassess, the discipline to unlearn, and the courage to operate differently before results validate the change.


Over two decades in healthcare leadership, every meaningful inflection point in my career has been preceded by internal surrender – not a change in environment, but a change in identity. A willingness to release outdated ways of thinking, leading, and measuring success.


Because the truth is simple: you don’t need a new environment to become someone new.


You need the courage to evolve right where you are.

 
 
 

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